No guy has ever really liked me. I'm a chubby girl with big boobs and that's all people really see. I did find the perfect boyfriend though. We've been dating for a year and a couple months. I'm not bored with him at all and I love it. I just get paranoid a lot when he goes to his friends house on the weekends. There is no cell service. He does'nt have the greatest friends either. I hope he has never cheated on me. I've never cheated, but ever since we've started dating, like 7 guys started flirting with me.. & I want to flirt back because no one really ever flirted with me.. But I would just feel like a ho. I don't want to ruin this great relationship. I can't. I won't I hope not

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Do not doubt yourself! I am sure that you are a great person. Sounds like it from your post. Chubby, big boob-ed ... who cares?! I am too and I thought I would never deserve the person i dreamed of - but I have him! Personality is sadly so underated these days, but, if you are with the right person you will not feel anything less than a princess. It also helps if you start the like yourself a bit.

My advise is: Trust your instincts, if this person is not making you feel good about yourself or making you seriously doubt his commitment to you, then let them go.

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If the person you are with thinks you are the best thing since sliced bread and it is just you who thinks you are not good enough then realise that your insecurities and paranoia could affect your relationship if you are not careful.

Basically you need to believe in yourself. The most important thing to realise is that you do not need someone else to validate your self-worth, the only person who can do that is you.

Never be a doormat,never settle for less than you dream of and always trust your instincts. And if you dont believe you are good enough, fake it - before you know it, you will believe it.

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