the one thing i regret most in my life is being intimate with a friend, i have now developed feelings for him and i know he doesn't feel the same way. he is dating another girl now and i cant help but feel sad, angry, and confused because i don't understand why i couldn't be her. i know this sounds crazy but when he is telling me that he likes me and wants to be with me it is kind of hard not to believe him since i like him so much. i dont want to tell him how i feel because i met him through friends that i have become very close with and i don't want them to know about any of this.i hate myself for liking him.

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please value yourself, your friend may really like you but is ultimately unsure of what they want. you cannot be strung along until he makes up his mind and you are left behind. sorry for your loss and pain.

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i feel the exact same as you i love this boy in my class but he never talks to me like he used to now hes got a gf =( and i hate myself for loving someone who doesnt love me.

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